The Uncommon Dad

Hardworking Dads, Listen Up!

⚡️ Want to be less tired, and more energized?

⚡️ Want to provide more for your family and take charge of your finances?

⚡️ Want to stop making excuses, and get into the best shape of your life?

⚡️ Want to be more present with your kids, instead of rushing and yelling?

⚡️ Want to stop being “roommates” with your wife, and bring back the spark?

If the answer is YES,
You came to the right place.

Because I used to be the Common Dad,
who STRUGGLED with all of those issues above.

But it all changed… and I can show you exactly how.

Let me show you how you can:


Be the Father your Family deserves with
The 3F Method

FITNESS

⚡️Get into the best physical shape of your life

⚡️ with a ripped physique that will have your wife sweating,

⚡️ and the energy to run your kids to exhaustion

FINANCE

⚡️ Change your relationship with money forever

⚡️ Learn how to save & manage your finances better

⚡️ Increase your earning capacity in your career or business
by becoming a high-performer

FATHERHOOD

⚡️ Become radically present for your wife & kids
without sacrificing your work or self-care

⚡️ Overcome yelling & overreactions
so you will be remembered as their hero, not their enemy

⚡️ Enjoy quality time like never before,
making memories that will last a lifetime

✊ BREAK THE CYCLE ✊

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Our next program is starting soon, and has limited spots left!

⋆ RISE begins 11/11/2024 ⋆

RISE GETS RESULTS

Kacey went from all-time-low of disconnection in his relationship of 8-yrs and an extinct sex-life, paired w/ rumination, anxiety, and angry lumber-shattering outbursts...

...to reigniting the 🔥, a physical & emotional connection deeper than EVER, and managing emotions w/ ease.

Dan went from angry & yelling dad 🤬 to one who could meet every moment with love, patience, and responsiveness 🧘‍♂️ ♥️ IN JUST 8 WEEKS

Through RISE so far…

25 Fathers Transformed

and entire lives of Families changed.

Meet Your Guide

I’m Rob. I’m a man, a husband, a father, and I’m the founder of Uncommon Dads.

I help hardworking men become the father that their family deserves.

⚡️ I have over a decade of experience in the health, fitness, & nutrition industry.

During that time and despite being

physically fit AF, I came face-to-face

with a battle I didn’t expect…

⚡️Anxiety, dangerously high blood-pressure, and living on the edge of panic.

All despite my athletic lifestyle,  hot wife, and “living the dream”

of making a LOT of money and climbing the corporate ladder for status & a title.

⚡️To the outside world, I was “living the dream”.

I was grinding away on the hamster-wheel day-in & day-out,

and despite making good money, and having it all,

I was more distant & disconnected from my wife than ever,

I was resentful & dying on the inside, and

using everything under the sun just to cope:

❌ caffeine just to keep going

❌ nightly alcohol to wind down

❌ hours social-media to distract

❌ 3-5 visits to PornHub / day

❌ out-of-control fitness routine that left me drained

❌ spending money on things & vacations I couldn’t afford

😱 …and none of it REALLY worked.

I was focused on DISTRACTING MYSELF, instead of FIXING THE ROOT CAUSE.

⚡️I kept thinking to myself…
⚡️ “I’m just a Common Dad. This is just how it is, it’s normal.”
⚡️It wasn’t!

I learned from my own father figures, without pausing to question it…

…AND

One day it hit me:
As I looked at my exhausted wife, and my kids starving for attention…
I thought ”If I continue like this, not only will I be unhappy for the rest of my life
but my wife & kids will remember me as an absent, stressed dad who was never there for them.”

“F*ck that!”.
I refused to end up as another statistic.

and I went ALL IN on fixing it.
I went ALL IN on becoming an Uncommon Dad.

No more:

❌ stressing about money

❌ being mentally absent when with my family

❌ making excuses as to why I’m not taking care of myself


What did I do?
• I went on a years-long journey
• mastered yoga, breathwork and holistic health
• reworked my mindset and patterns around finances
• healed my trauma and got serious about healthy habits

The Result?
✅ Dream Body: because of a daily routine of work, exercise and rest I actually enjoy
✅ Dream Marriage: rebuilt the relationship with my wife, with more passion & fun than ever
✅ Financial Upgrade: my own business, working from home and providing a better lifestyle for all

My wife started noticing. My kids started noticing. Strangers started noticing. And soon, I had other dads knocking… Asking me how I did it, and how they can do the same.

This is why I started the Uncommon Dad. This is why I created the program ‘Rise’.

WHAT UNCOMMON DADS ARE SAYING



Kenny went from 👻 shutting down with his wife & 🌋 scaring his son w/ overreactions to reigniting the 🔥 flame in his marriage & becoming the 🫂 sought-after safe-harbor for his son.

How Robert went from an emotional wreck who could only process his emotions with 🤬 🌋 ANGER to flooding his life and wife with happiness through his ability to process his emotions individually, see where they're coming from, and lead from his heart. ♥️

SO YOU WANT TO BECOME A BETTER DAD…

✅ STRONG, FIT, FLEXIBLE

A man who’s never too sore or who’s body just doesn’t work like that anymore…

✅ PATIENT & RESPONSE-ABLE

A man who has tools to stop the irritation and frustration

from building into explosive overreactions and conflict with your wife & kids.

✅ EMOTIONALLY AWARE

A man who has the emotional skills that will have your kids

seeking you out as their safe-space, and that will rekindle the spark in your marriage.

THE FASTEST WAY TO GET THERE ISN’T THROUGH:

❌ WILLPOWER

❌ DAD-INFLUENCERS

❌ OR PARENTING BOOKS… 😱

…IT’S THROUGH TRAINING FOR IT ✊

and learning from someone who’s been up that mountain,

scaled it’s peak, and can guide you every step of the way

…as a father & husband

who is harder to kill

and easier to love.

So what will it be?

Will you make your family wait

for you to break your bad habits

& step up to the table for them?

WHAT UNCOMMON DADS ARE SAYING

Brendan burned the ships and went ALL IN on the inner and outer work, overcoming a lifetime of doctors who told him he’d just have to DEAL WITH his muscular dystrophy.

Instead, he proved them all wrong and came out the other side of RISE with an unparalleled level of GROUNDEDNESS in body, mind, and soul.

Matt struggled with years of constant pain that was so bad he was losing his ability to move, tie his shoes, & even ride his bike.

Fear crept into his life that any movement could sideline him from doing the things he loved to do & from PLAYING in his body.

He was the walking embodiment of the old-guy phrase “my body doesn’t work like it used to.”

He from giving up on his body to being able to play how and when he wanted to for the rest of his life.

What if…

⚡️ You got less irritated & frustrated with the little things with your kids, wife, and life, and were more patient and relaxed instead?

⚡️ You were less distracted by all the thoughts and things to do in your head, by social-media and the endless distractions of life, and you could be 100% completely present with your kids instead?

⚡️ You could be more connected with your kids and your wife without having to “fix” the problems for them, and you – and they – could really feel that?

⚡️ You were less distant, butted head less, and had deeper intimacy and greater connection with your wife than when you first met?

⚡️ You didn’t feel so overwhelmed and could strike a balance between work, family, and self-care so you could show up as the man, husband, and father your family needs and deserves?

❌ …without even having to read all the parenting books, take all the relationship advice, and figure out how to do it all out on your own.

Here’s the problem

Here’s how most guys are going about trying to become a better man, husband, father:

❌ Start working-out harder, hoping it’s the magic-pill

and fall off the wagon after a few weeks

because it’s impossible to balance it all

❌ Fast & count macros only to

fall off the wagon and stay off, because they

don’t understand how to manage their stress-induced self-sabotage

❌ Start following all the dad-work influencers

and start trying to willpower being a better dad,

only to get crushed by dad-guilt when they overreact,

mess up, or make a mistake, so try to willpower it harder

— and the cycle never ends…

❌ Read The Five Love Languages and work on that w/ their wife

w/o learning how to SHOW UP as the man she needs,

& w/o learning to listen, communicate & BE w/ her in a way

that makes her feel captivating & desired again.

❌ Start doing Wim Hof breathwork & Cold Showers,

and feel really freaking good, but have no idea

how & when to apply these to kids’ tantrums

or hard conversations w/ their wife.

👉 I’ve trained hundreds of men

over my career,

and I’ve seen the best of them.

👉 Even the most disciplined guys

fall off the wagon and

struggle endlessly with consistency,

eating well, and most importantly –

with showing up as the patient,

present, and connected man

they deeply desire to be…

👉 because they’re unable to

get to the root of the problem –

their inability to manage stress,

to feel and control their emotional reactions,

their deep underlying limiting-beliefs,

and the family cycles that have

followed them for generations.

…but it DOES NOT

have to be this way.

WHO DOES

IT WORK FOR?

RISE is for men who have recognized that

there are changes that need to be made in order

for them to show up at 100% the as the man,

husband, and father that they know they can be.

It works best for men who: 

✅ Are ready to break the recurring cycles and patterns of inconsistency, self-sabatoge, overreaction, escapism and distraction, low energy, and disconnection between self, wife, & kids.

✅ Want to maximize their potential in their health, relationships, intimacy, of their own kids, in their work, and in their finances.

✅ Desire to become pillars of patience, presence, empathy, connection, and loving levelness; achieving a level of fully integrated and powerful fatherhood that this world has never seen before.

RISE: The Uncommmon Dads Accelerator is your framework for achieving all of this and more.

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  • Pillar One: Refinement

    Ancient warriors knew their body was their most efficient and effective tool & weapon. Use movement, nutrition, & dopamine detox to restore your body & mind to factory settings so you are fit to be of service.

  • Pillar Two: The Fire of Discipline

    Discipline isn't about suffering. The warriors of old understood discipline as a fire that molds us into our truest potential, like the blacksmith's sword and the fire of the phoenix. Apply inspired fire to your body, mind, & emotions to mold yourself into your fullest potential while holding the highest vision for yourself and your family.

  • Pillar Three: Radical Intimacy & Connection

    The health of our family is determined by the health of our marriage / partnership. We each contribute 50% to that partnership. Without cultivating the skill of radical intimacy and emotional connection, our family suffers. A strong I ( developed in Refinement & Discipline) enables a robust, romantic, playful, and powerful We, which in turn enables the thriving All of family. This requires us to break-up with the myth of the "roommate" phase and to go all-in on creating a radically open and loving partnership at all costs.

  • Pillar Four: Serving The Highest Cause

    All of this work isn't just so that we can live an amazing life, it's in service to the ones that will follow. We commit to the continuous path of Self-Mastery -- to do the work so future generations won't have to.

    This is the path of the Transitional Character: the man who recognizes the negative patterns that have followed the family-line through the generations, and who resolves to do the work to break them once and for all so that his kids won't have to.

    He understands that above all else, his example is his greatest legacy, and so he is committed to giving them such and example.

I’m ready to do the work so my kids won’t have to…

HERE’S WHAT UNCOMMON DADS ARE SAYING

“Children have never been very good at listening to

their elders, but they have never failed to imitate them.”

— James Baldwin

SO, HOW DOES IT WORK?

PROVEN FRAMEWORK FOR RESULTS

Whether you’re working-out or working-in (mental & emotional work) you’ll leave behind the guess work, the option paralysis, and the wondering if this stuff will even work for you — simply follow the periodized RISE training, work hard, ask for help, and watch as the skills develop and the magic unfolds.

UNLIMITED, ON-DEMAND MENTORSHIP

We hold 1v1 and tribe calls every week and daily Telegram-Tribe accountability checkins to preview & review practices together and to give customized and detailed coaching any time you need it.

DETAILED & CURATED CURRICULUM

When you join RISE, you’ll be given access to 11 modules of detailed curriculum which encompasses inner and outer development. It’s dripped out week-by-week, so you have time to learn and implement before moving on to the next step.

LIFETIME ACCESS

Once you’re part of RISE, you’ll retain lifetime access to the curriculum and ALL future program updates. Even after the 12-week initiation period, the educational modules, training, and practices will be accessible for you throughout every step of your post initiation journey.

RUTHLESS MASCULINE ACCOUNTABILITY

When you join RISE you’ll be thrust into the Inner-Circle of fellow warrior-dads who are on the path alongside you. You’ll be taught how to give and receive support and challenge designed to sharpen your edges and to enable you to RISE above the status-quo, rather than enabling you to dwell within your comfort zone.

MASTERMIND BONUSES

Each man will have the opportunity to benefit from a Mastermind process where the entire tribe will come together with the intention of helping this man to solve his biggest challenges in life.

Additionally, outside experts will be brought in to provide additional lessons and support on the power & implementation of long fasts, the processing of generational trauma, and the reprogramming of subconscious patterns through the use of language.

WHAT YOU’LL GET INSIDE ➡️

RISE is Basic Training for dads who want to go from ordinary to EXTRAORDINARY, from common to UNCOMMON.

You’ll get full access to me as I guide you through the actual lifestyle changes, practices, and embodiment work necessary to train & engrain things like energy, patience, presence, play, empathy, emotional control, and the kind of deep connection your wife and kids really need from you.

RISE INCLUDES:

✅ Daily workouts & workins (breathwork, meditation, primal qi gong) delivered straight to your phone

✅ Daily accountability checkins with me and the warrior-dads who are doing the work alongside you

✅ Weekly personalized 1v1 strategic & deep-work coaching

✅ Weekly brotherhood training & tribal circle

✅ and a step-by-step framework to implement for the rest of your life so you can show up as the man your family needs you to be both inside and out.

READY TO GO ALL IN?

To DO THE WORK and RISE to a level

of manhood, husbandhood, and fatherhood

that this world has never seen before?

1️⃣ Click the button below to apply to the program.

2️⃣ You’ll either get approved right away, or we’ll hop on a call to sort out

what’s working and not in your life and determine

the best path forward for you and your family.

3️⃣ ...or it’s just not a good fit, and that’s okay too. No hard feelings

and no obligations on your part. I’ll suggest something else you can do

to become the best man, husband, and dad that you can be.

All that’s left is the

decision to burn the ships,

and go all in for your family.

So what are you waiting for?

I’m a man, a husband, a father, and a transformational men’s coach. I empower men and dads to become Uncommon Men and Dads who are the embodiment of physical strength and vitality, mental resilience, emotional mastery, and show up as pillars of patience, presence, engagement, energy, and deep empathy and connection. The kind of men who break generational cycles and leave a new legacy for their wives, kids, and for generations to come.

The rising tide lifts all ships. So, RISE.

  • men and dads can live and show up at their fullest potential, day-in and day-out, no matter what life throws at them.

  • build the inner and outer strength, patience, presence, and power to be cycle-breaking and legacy-making leaders for themselves, their family, and the world.

  • who embody physical vitality, mental strength, and emotional mastery.

  • create a movement that transforms the lives of hundreds of fathers, families, and the planet as a whole.